7 Kinds of Sex Every Couple Needs!

 When you’re in a relationship, sometimes the sex can become routine. That is the LAST thing you want! It usually leads to lots of complaining and even cheating. Try to avoid falling into the same sex pattern with your partner and take some of these tips from the “7 Kinds of Sex that Every Couple Needs”! Check below to start the sex that’ll keep your relationship moving!

 

LIGHT-SPEED SEX
A quickie is kind of like an earthquake: It gets your adrenaline rushing, is over in a flash, and leaves you weak in the knees. Besides releasing your pent-up lust, initiating a quickie can be the ultimate compliment to your guy because it shows how deeply you desire him.
In addition, when he’s had a stressful day, a fast and furious romp really takes the edge off. Put simply: “Sometimes guys want to take their time, and sometimes they just want to get their rocks off,” says William Fitzgerald, PhD, a retired sex therapist in San Jose, California. When you can tell he’s in a horny, hasty mood, don’t bother fully undressing — just pull his penis out of the opening in his boxers and push your panties aside. All you need for successful speed sex is lube, says Los Angeles sex therapist Donald Etkes, PhD. “It’s your best friend when you don’t have time to get completely warmed up.”
SHOW-OFF SEX
You may think it would be easier to give a speech in the presence of 500 people than to masturbate in front of your man, but taking that plunge may be worth it — experts say that watching a woman pleasure herself is near the top of most men’s fantasy wish lists. But it’s not just a very personal peep show; it’s a chance to teach him exactly how you like to be manhandled.
Revealing to your guy how you master your own domain is one of the most secretive and intimate things you can do.
COMFORT SEX
Anyone with a pulse would be crazy not to crave a hot-and-spicy sack session. But sometimes all you want is the sexual equivalent of mac and cheese: It may not be exciting, but it makes you feel so good. “People have sex for a lot of different reasons, and one of them is to be soothed and comforted,” says Chicago marital-sex therapist Michael Seiler, PhD. “Making each other feel loved and cared for is the most powerful way to bring the psychological and physical elements of your relationship together.”
WILD-KINGDOM SEX
It’s the raw, primal, grunting kind of sex that wakes the neighbors, scares house pets, and rattles bed frames — the more writhing and bucking, the better.
Any animalistic sex session starts, fittingly, on all fours (aka doggie-style). Grab his hands and wrap them around your waist — a cue that you want him to hold on and thrust — and he’ll answer your call of the wild. Keep your neck down. It’ll help you loosen up all the way down your spine so you can move your tush with gusto.
SURRENDER SEX
Men are conquest-loving creatures, which is why they get so hot when you let them take over. “If he feels like he’s at the top of his game, your surrender is a power trip and a huge turn-on,” says Fitzgerald.
During foreplay, let your legs fall open and hold the headboard or pillows above you so your whole body is exposed to him. Then invite him to slide on top of you. Meet his thrusts halfway by rocking your pelvis upward against his and lifting your legs in the air with your feet spread far apart. This gives him room to maneuver his body and alternate between deep thrusting and short pumping. Then drape your legs over his shoulders so he can grab your ankles and position them where he wants them. “Tell him you want him to make you come,” says Etkes. “It says that you want him running the show because he has the skills to get you there.”
FEMALE-DOMINATION SEX
If he’s been doing all the pouncing and pawing lately, take the reins. But a truly titillating takeover has to be authentic and not staged, so wait until you’re really randy, straddle him, and say, “I’d love to be in charge tonight.” Then gently grab his penis and rub it around your clitoris as if he were your personal sex toy.
Once you slip him in, pin his hands to the bed or tie him to the headboard with scarves or stockings while you grind against his lap in a circular motion. Or try this hot move: Stick your breasts in his face and instruct him to flick your nipples with his tongue — the only part of him that’s free to move. He’ll happily submit to your sexy request.
Another in-command position: girl-on-top 69. Rub your hot spot against his tongue and pivot your hips back and forth in sync with the lip service you’re giving him.

4 Turn Offs When Approaching The Ladies

When you meet a girl, you might devise a plan to catch her eye. While acting out the plan you hatch, keep in mind that before you get too far into a conversation with her, she’s likely to have already sized you up to determine if you’re worth her time. There are SEVERAL things that TURN GIRLS OFF ALMOST IMMEDIATELY like being rude or lying.


Poor Attitude
Whether you’re mistaking cockiness for confidence or just being outright rude, whoever told you girls like guys with bad attitudes told you wrong! There’s a difference between playing hard to get and being a cock! If you know you’re just putting on a show to seem like you’re cool, ditch the acting and be yourself! Not every girl requires a guy to open doors and cover rain puddles with his coat, but CHIVALRY IS NOT DEAD! Consider how your bad attitude may be spewing out bad vibes for the girl you have your eye on.

Poor Grooming
There’s a reason why a first impression means everything. If you look like you’ve just finished wrestling with a sewer rat, she’s not going to give you a second glance—at least, not in a good way. You don’t have to have a standing appointment to get pedicures and full body waxes to keep her interest, but a decent haircut and a clean shirt will surely help. Even if you’re going for a rugged look, there is such a thing as too far gone.

Lack of Attention

It’s human nature to crave attention, so when you treat her as if she’s barely existent in your life, it’s quite a turn-off. Don’t resort to playing so much cat and mouse that you let her slip right through the cracks. If you are interested in her, show it! The more attention you give her and the deeper you dig into getting to know her, the more likely that she will share mutual feelings with you.

Promiscuity

If you’re using your charm and pretty face to work your way into every woman’s arms, you’re going to lose many a battle. Being a player or acting promiscuously is not only unattractive, but for many women, it is a deal-breaker. Don’t lie or connive your way into getting what you want. If you simply like to date a few girls at a time, make your methods CLEAR SO EVERYONE’S ON THE SAME PAGE!


The same turn offs apply to guys as well. I mean...some guys. To each his own grave.

Unquotable

The thing about fast girls is that they leave quicker than they cum
                                                                                               -E.T.G.

Unquotable

I am lonely, yet not everybody will do. I don’t know why, some people fill the gaps and others emphasize my loneliness. In reality those who satisfy me are those who simply allow me to live with my ”idea” of them.      

                                               - Anaïs Nin

How to Find A Soulmate

Finding a serious relationship can be difficult in the age of the booty call.  So, I’ve thrown together some KEY ATTRIBUTES to look for:

Loyalty

This seems like a pretty obvious characteristic.  However many of us compromise this for the sake of companionship or some superficial reason.  Loyalty and trust are major factors in ALL relationships especially romantic ones.  You want to be able to trust what your partner tells you.  You also want them to be loyal to the extent that you don’t have to guess about their dedication to the relationship.  You’ve heard the saying ‘without trust you have nothing’.  And it’s true!

Responsibility

This trait is usually a sign that the person possesses a high level of MATURITY!  For example, you want someone that is able to hold down a steady, LEGITIMATE job.  Someone who can pay their own bills and live up to any other commitment they obligate themselves to.  Relationships are a LOT of work and require two RESPONSIBLE people!

Communication

Seek out a person that is an open book to you.  Someone that is good at communicating is more than likely going to do well at maintaining a HEALTHY relationship.  And not just good at communicating about hobbies and sports.  You want someone that can articulate their feelings, good or bad, in a productive manner.  The last thing you want is someone who bottles things up and explodes once they reach capacity.

Compatibility

Compatibility doesn’t mean being the carbon copy of your boo or even having the same hobbies.  This simply means you both have the same morals and values.  Similarity in ethics is ESSENTIAL for a healthy relationship.  For example if the guy or girl you’re seeing has ever SPIT on someone and you deem that a dispicable act, you two are going to have some problems. It isn’t just the act of spitting on another human being, you understand that spitting on someone is normally a sign of other MAJOR character flaws and ultimately some very huge differences between you two.   Sharing that common core balance is essential for that UNIFIED feeling.

Drive

When looking for a gal or guy to call your own, look for someone who is first their OWN PERSON.  Drive is a major part of being an individual.  Someone’s personal goal is in some way a depiction of their self value.  Not only that, its shows that they are able to stand on their own two feet.  There’s something to be said for a person that is A-OKAY with being by themselves.  Most people with drive don’t have time to hop from relationship to relationship because this would distract them from their goals.  So when you find someone with ambition that stop to get to know you, you know its forreal.

I hope that was helpful!

Ways to tell if your in a Unhealthy Relationship

 Only fools rush in. Before you go professing your love for your new interest, make sure it’s for the right reasons. Guys and gals alike get so psyched when we find someone special that we overlook some factors that could render the relationship unhealthy!

 It’s normal to look at the world through rose-colored glasses in the beginning stages of a relationship.  But don’t let the euphoria blind you from recognizing if your relationship is unhealthy. 
Playing nice and respecting your partner in any relationship should be a two-way street.  Here are some key ingredients for a healthy relationship.

Mutual respect. Does he or she respect your views and opinions?  Do they appreciate your take on things or do they criticize your ideas?  Do they keep plans or set communicate changes in plans?  Does your partner listen when you’re venting?  Do they consider your opinions or feelings?  Does he or she ask about your day and listen intently?  If you are uncomfortable with something, do they tease you or minimize your feelings?   These questions will help you tell if you are being respected and valued for who you are.

Trust. You’re boo sees you chatting it up with another guy or girl.   Do they completely lose their cool or keep walking because they know you’d never cheat on them? Jealousy gets the best of all of us at some time or another — it is a natural emotion. But how a person reacts when feeling jealous is what matters. There’s no way you can have a healthy relationship if you don’t trust one another.

Support. Is your partner front row at your basketball games or do they know the words to a song or poem that you’ve written?  Being supported by your significant other is a MAJOR factor in any relationship.  But it’s not just in good times that your boo should support you.  Some people are great at being there for the good times but have difficulty being there when times are rough.  In a healthy relationship, your significant other is there with a shoulder to cry on when you find out your grandmother passed away and to celebrate with you when you get the lead in a play.

Fairness/equality. You need to have give-and-take in your relationship, too. Do you find that you’re always the one making the trek to hang out with them?  Or that you always have to plan outings?  If so, that’s a sign that your relationship might be unhealthy.  Both participants should be putting in equal effort. 

Safety.  This could fall under the same category as respect.  But it deals more closely with respecting someone’s body and space.  Does your partner grab you or restrain you when you’re trying to walk away.  Does he or she strike, slap or grip you in an unwelcoming manner.  Your guessed it!  You’re relationship is NOT healthy and you need to get out of it.

If you’re relationship is suffering in 2 or more of these areas, you might need to reevaluate whether or not the relationship is healthy for you!  The thing to remember is this: when you remain in a situation that is unhealthy, you are only training yourself to accept unhealthy and counter productive relationships!  The longer you wait to get out of it, the harder it will be.

UnQuotable

"You can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks, or even months over-analyzing a situation; trying to put the pieces together, justifying what could’ve, would’ve happened… or you can just leave the pieces on the floor and move the fuck on."
                                       - 2pac

This is how I see if a peron is lying

when looking for a lie…never look in the eyes…look at hands. eyebrows,nose, and corners of the mouth….i never look people in the eyes when asking questions. Be fierce & work your presence.

What Did the Redneck Say On Friday?

45 things your girl wants but wont ask for

45 things a girl wants for but wont ask for.
1. Touch her waist.
2. Actually talk to her.
3. Share secrets with her.
4. Give her your jacket.
5. Kiss her slowly.
Are you remembering this?
6. Hug her.
7. Hold her.
8. Laugh with her.
9. Invite her somewhere.
10. Hangout with her and your friends together.
KEEP READING ..
11. Smile with her.
12. Take pictures with her.
13. Pull her onto your lap.
14. When she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back.
15. When her friends say “I love her more than you”, deny it. Fight back and hug her tight so she can’t get to her friends. It makes her feel loved.
Are you thinking of someone?
16. Always hug her and say I love you whenever you see her.
17. Kiss her unexpectedly.
18. Hug her from behind around the waist.
19. Tell her she’s beautiful.
20. Tell her the way you feel about her.
One last thing you need to do to show her you actually do mean it.
21. Open doors for her, walk her to her car - it makes her feel protected, plus it never hurts to act like a gentleman.
22. Tell her she’s your everything - only if you mean it.
23. If it seems like there is something wrong, ask her - if she denies something being wrong, it means SHE DOESN’T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT - so just hug her.
24. Make her feel loved.
25. Kiss her in front of OTHER girls you know!
WE MIGHT DENY IT BUT WE ACTUALLY LIKE AND KINDA WANT YOU TO TICKLE US ..
26. Don’t lie to her.
27. DON’T cheat on her.
28. Take her ANYWHERE she wants.
29. Text message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school, and how much you miss her.
30. Be there for her whenever she needs you, and even when she doesn’t need you, just be there so she’ll know that she can always count on you.
ARE YOU STILL READING THIS? YOU BETTER, BECAUSE IT’S IMPORTANT.
31. Hold her close when she’s cold so she can hold you too.
32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the cheek; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss her).
34. While in the movies, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.
35. Don’t ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you’re mad. If she’s upset, comfort her.
REMEMBER ALL THESE THINGS WHEN YOU ARE WITH HER NEXT ..
36. When people diss her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.
39. When walking next to each other grab her hand.
40. When you hug her, hold her in your arms as long as possible.
MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHES LOVED.
41. Call or text her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
42. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for long walks at night.
44. Always remind her how much you love her.
45. Sit on top of her and tell her how much you love her and then bend down to her face and kiss her while you’re sitting on her.
You’ll never know when she needs just a little more love ..

SHE’S UNDATEABLE!!: 5 Ways to prescreen your new lady!!

So you’ve met a nice little lady.  Listen closely to what she says in those initial conversations.  Particularly what she says about past relationships. She could be speaking a cryptic code which translates to “Run”!
Not in ANY specific order cuz all these quirks are equally NOT-DATEABLE!

The “BAD TALKER”:
Most people can admit their part in failed relationships. They might not admit to their ex what they did wrong, but admitting to other people shouldn’t be an issue, right? If you’re just meeting someone and they are bashing the heck out of their ex, beware. It means that they have a serious issue accepting responsibility for their wrongs. And you guessed it-this probably was just the straw that broke the camel’s back. They more than likely were never wrong about anything during the relationship. This spells D-I-S-A-S-T-E-R!

The “SUFFERER”:
Every girl you come across is gonna have at least 1 bad thing to say about her ex. Hell, that’s why they aren’t together anymore! But listen to the “bad shit” timeline. If stuff got jacked up in 2008 and she stayed until 2011, RUN! This is normally a sign that ol’ girl is suffering from a low self esteem. She probably thinks and believes that no one else wants her. Therefore she allowed herself to be a doormat for the last guy. Its up to you whether you wanna invest in that type of situation but a low self esteem comes with a LOT of added baggage!

The “FAST FORWARD LOVER”:
OK, this one might be a bit hard to read. So you guys just met and things are getting off to a great start. Yall are going out, having sleepovers, never want to leave the other’s side…yatta yatta yatta. About 3 weeks in, she wants to lock you down. She’s talking about marriage, asking what you’d do if the “accidentally” got preggo. HALT! Be alarmed especially if this was the same course of events with her ex! First of all, she’s trying to lock you in for one of two reasons. She could want to lock you in because she is helplessly DESPERATE! Which means there’s nothing special about you, she was just waiting for someone who fit the basic criteria. Sad but TRUE. The second reason is that she wants to lock you in before you find out “other” things about her. Who knows what these things might be, but she wants you to sign the dotted line before you can read the fine print.

The PEEPING TOM:
Is her story riddled with lines like…”I found the pics in his email” or “A girl named Felicia signed in with the doorman, and she didn’t leave for three hours”. RUN like hell! This chick is PARANOID. This is ROBO COP in a skirt! If you choose to move forward, be prepared to always be explaining your whereabouts such as, why your phone is on silent, who you’re with, who will be meeting you there, are there girls there…you get the drift!

Last but not least “STATIC CLING”
Why did her last relationship fail? If it’s anywhere along the lines of “He didn’t want to spend time with me” or “He complained about me wanting to be around him and his friends” you need to RUN. Before you say I’m tripping, please listen to my logic. In every relationship, your time APART is just as important as your time together. Yes, you want your boys to approve of her but they don’t need to be friends with her. That’s your crew and also your safe haven. If you choose to proceed, be ready to draw the line and be ready for her to OVEERRIDE it!

Interesting Facts

1. The phrase “rule of thumb” is derived from an old English law which stated that you couldn’t beat your wife with anything wider than your thumb.

2. The dot over the letter “i” is called a tittle.

3. A raisin dropped in a glass of fresh champagne will bounce up and down continuously from the bottom of the glass to the top.

4. Chewing gum while peeling onions will keep you from crying.

5. A 2 X 4 is really 1-1/2″ by 3-1/2″.

6. During the chariot scene in "Ben Hur," a small red car can be seen in the distance (and Heston’s wearing a watch).

7. On average, 12 newborns will be given to the wrong parents daily. This explains my current situation.

8. The number of possible ways of playing the first four moves per side in a game of chess is 318,979,564,000.

9. There are no words in the dictionary that rhyme with orange, purple and silver.

10. Astronauts are not allowed to eat beans before they go into space because passing wind in a spacesuit damages them.

Major Violation!!!

If theres anything a man WILL NOT tolerate in a relationship, aint aint bad cookin’, it aint bad sex…well maybe bad sex but the absolute deal breaker issssss….no need for a drumroll because you already know: CHEATING! Its the age old question. Why will a woman stand by after being cheated on but a man will not? I’ve had quite a few chats with uncles, cousins and even my own father to figure this one out. What it boils down to is EGO. Most guy’s ego can’t withstand that type of blow. Cheat on a man and you might as well take away all his cash, deflate his muscles and slap a vagina on him. Ok, maybe that was drastic but you get the point.

One of my girls was in a long term relationship with her college beau. If you have any idea the amount of sex offerings being made on college campuses, you understand the type of pressure both of them had undergone. He, broke down to temptation, repeatedly. She stayed by his side. When she reached her breaking point, she cheated, and he left her. Is it fair, no. But is it the truth? You can bet your bottom dollar. Then you have those women who have an appetite for sex that is comparable to Wilt Chamberlain. They exist and some poor man is always falling in love with them and getting their heart broken. Some people just can’t be tamed and aren’t meant to remain with one person. Cheating is wrong any way you cut it, slice it or dice it. But think about this…when a man cheats, how does the girl retaliate? She might want to fight the sidechick. She might cry. She might slash tires. She might even come for the sneaker collection if shes bold. But when a woman cheats, how do men retaliate? They want to kill somebody! LOL, its not funny but its the truth! Fellas let me get some feedback on this topic. What is a deal breaker for you? If it isn’t cheating then what is it?

UnQuotable

Change what you can, Accept what you cant.

More times than often these things called feelings

• At first, they’re so fascinated by you.
• They always want to talk to you.
• They always have time to see you.
• They couldn’t leave you alone.
• You get used to it.

Somewhere along the way..

• They don’t seem as interested.
• They don’t have as much to say.
• They don’t have as much time to see you.
• You feel alone.
• You realize that it’s gonna be over soon.

Then you’re confused, wondering ”What the fuck went wrong?”.

Random Rant

I guess this will be my official random rant on shit that happens in a young macs life. Shit gets crazy, shit gets real. stay tuned. 



- Is it possible for a chick to be thick in the wrong places?

- I think Im sure that my favorite porn star is...Michelle Tucker. She cant suck a dick all that well but THAT ASS!!! SHIT!!! I need 2 find a clone of her somewhere.

- How low of a self -esteem do you need to post on facebook a whole album of pics dedicated to when you are "cute"? Now...aesthetically speaking coming from a real Mack like myself, this bitch is ugly. Uglier in person. I got shammed into meeting her. She ugly but she has a real nice pair of boobs. No lie. She knows it too. Thats bout it she has working for her but yeah...her pics dont hold a lick to the truth so "cute days"...eh. I dont think so.

- I always feel nostalgic when I see dirty cars with "wash me" along with funny graphics on them. My car is dirty though so Im just waiting to ride around with that fresh new dirt "paint job".

-Another thing I despise, besides a chick with low self-esteem, is the feeling of being powerless. I would like to do something about everything I find some sort of measure of care for. being unable to do something just puts me in an internal/external/eternal war.

- I been fucking with tumblr more lately. Dont ask me why. This is still my main blog however...tumblr is my side bitch until further notice. Dont you ever leave me BLOGGER! (while choking you out) I did that out of love.

- I have literally been listening to Amy Winehouse - Do me good for the past 3 days. I had recently discovered it & subconsciously felt I should catch up for the time lost. Thats a dope ass track. Id bang her too.

- Tell me why a longtime friend of mine hit me up asked me to hang with her as long as we keep it friendly? WTF?!? I done banged you into oblivion for the past 5 years (on/off) & you want me to restrain myself from possible pleasure? Spend money & time with yo ass like its the thing to do? Get the fuck outta here. Who do I look like boo-boo the foo? I mean shit pussy isnt everything but she is the kind of friend that makes no effort into making things work. She just wants. My time is valuable. If anything pussy should be all we have to talk about.  

- Cant go wrong with bachelor chow aka cereal. The simplest form of a good meal. Currently eating: Honey bunches of oats & Almonds ;-P

UnQuotable

"Dream as if you'll live forever, live as if you'll die today.” - James Dean

UnQuotable

He who smiles all the time, is the most vicious

UnQuotable

A mistake is only a mistake if you repeat it.



I heard this from a guy that was featured on the Steve Harvey Project show...It was a kool quote but I quickly debunked it. I mean it only makes sense sometimes. Not like if a person cheats or gets their arm ripped off. I could be goin hard on it but its todays Unquotable nevertheless.

UnQuotable

"Talent is God-given. Be humble. Fame is man-given. Be grateful. Conceit is self-given. Be careful"