Major Violation!!!

If theres anything a man WILL NOT tolerate in a relationship, aint aint bad cookin’, it aint bad sex…well maybe bad sex but the absolute deal breaker issssss….no need for a drumroll because you already know: CHEATING! Its the age old question. Why will a woman stand by after being cheated on but a man will not? I’ve had quite a few chats with uncles, cousins and even my own father to figure this one out. What it boils down to is EGO. Most guy’s ego can’t withstand that type of blow. Cheat on a man and you might as well take away all his cash, deflate his muscles and slap a vagina on him. Ok, maybe that was drastic but you get the point.

One of my girls was in a long term relationship with her college beau. If you have any idea the amount of sex offerings being made on college campuses, you understand the type of pressure both of them had undergone. He, broke down to temptation, repeatedly. She stayed by his side. When she reached her breaking point, she cheated, and he left her. Is it fair, no. But is it the truth? You can bet your bottom dollar. Then you have those women who have an appetite for sex that is comparable to Wilt Chamberlain. They exist and some poor man is always falling in love with them and getting their heart broken. Some people just can’t be tamed and aren’t meant to remain with one person. Cheating is wrong any way you cut it, slice it or dice it. But think about this…when a man cheats, how does the girl retaliate? She might want to fight the sidechick. She might cry. She might slash tires. She might even come for the sneaker collection if shes bold. But when a woman cheats, how do men retaliate? They want to kill somebody! LOL, its not funny but its the truth! Fellas let me get some feedback on this topic. What is a deal breaker for you? If it isn’t cheating then what is it?